If you are looking for some new ideas on how to spice up your sex life, we would highly suggest bringing sex toys into the mix. Sex toys can lead to a whole new world of sexual discovery and are a perfect way to spice up things between the sheets. If you don’t own any sex toys, this article will help making that first purchase a little easier.
Before putting these great sex ideas for couples into play there are a few things to consider, think about and discuss with your partner before spending your hard earned money.
- Research: This may sound like an obvious tip but when I say research I mean that I want you to think about what kind of stimulation you are looking for. The best way to do this is through self pleasure. This really is the best way to figure out how you enjoy stimulation and will really help you narrow down your choices. If you want these sex ideas for couples to work you have to be comfortable with self pleasure, if you are not then a sex toy will not help change that problem, you will need to start that on your own.
- Uses: Do you plan on using the sex toy by yourself so you can better explain to your partner how to stimulate you or is this something you want both of you to enjoy? This is a very important question to ask as sex toys are not designed for individual people but some are designed more for those looking for solo or partner play. Some couples use their own toys together and others prefer to meet in the middle and get one toy that both can use. The decision is up to you but it is worth considering and discussing so that you both get the most out of your purchase.
- Money: How much do you want to spend on these sex ideas for couples? This is worth discussing, regardless of today’s economic situation, because if you go and spend €200 on a sex toy it does not mean you will get better pleasure. A cheaper toy can be just as much fun as a high end toy, it just more than likely won’t last as long. I suggest you start with cheaper toys until you discover what you really like and then invest in a higher end toy. The higher end toys usually have better designs and are more durable but there is nothing worse than dropping big bucks for something you end up never using!