10 Benefits of Couples Using Sex Toys

Sex toys are a great way to inject a bit of excitement into your sex life and can bring a lot more variety to couple play. There are many benefits and not all are as obvious as you might imagine. Yes, they can invigorate passion and awaken desire, but can also have a positive effect on your relationship overall. Below we discuss these benefits and suggest a variety of products for those of you considering experimenting with sex toys. 

 

1. Reigniting Passion

The reality is most couples in long-term relationships lose the intense passion that once was at the beginning of the relationship. Sex and relationship expert, Tracey Cox, explains why in a very clear way and it really comes down to mother nature, our hormones and the fact that we’re not built to have long lasting relationships. When you are with someone for a certain amount of time, and particularly if you’ve had children, mother nature thinks it’s done its function. Tracey says, “The whole point of a sex drive is population.” If mother nature thinks it’s done its function then the desire isn’t necessarily as high and may require a bit more effort in changing things up. The interesting thing she points out is that there are different hormones responsible for love and sex. It is often thought that the two go well together, when in fact they fight against each other. Testosterone is the hormone behind our sex drive. Hormones like oxytocin and serotonin are love hormones. They don’t like being in the brain together. Tracey says that the way around this is to trick the brain into thinking it’s having ‘first time’ experiences. How do we do this? Naughty sex! “The way to keep it going is to have naughty sex. It’s good to have loving sex, but it’s important to have naughty sex to shock the brain and send off those sex hormones. The naughtier the sex you have, pushing you out of your comfort zone, the brain says ‘oh, I haven’t tried this before’ mother nature thinks you are doing this with someone new. You are essentially tricking her.”

To hear Tracey explain all of this in detail you can watch this Tonic video:

SUGGESTIONS

LELO – LYLA 2 VIBRATING EGG-MASSAGER BLACK

A premium vibrating bullet-style massager with a wireless remote. LYLA™ 2 offers you secrecy, pleasure, and excitement, whenever you want and wherever you go. It’s rechargeable, with controls that respond to movement – it’s time to embrace your most adventurous side.

LELO INDULGE ME PLEASURE SET

10 Benefits of Couples Using Sex Toys

Indulge your senses to their fullest with this most luxurious pleasure set by Lelo. Combining the Intima Silk Blindfold with Tantra Feather Teaser you will take your passions to the most insatiable heights, teasing out pleasure before sharing sensations with the Noa couples massager. 

2. Discover New Things Together

It’s always nice to have new experiences with your other half, and that applies to the more intimate parts of your relationship. New and exciting experiences make life more interesting. Trying out new sex toys together can make your sex life more interesting and enjoyable. As a result they can increase the desire for more intimacy, ultimately keeping the spark between a couple alive.

SUGGESTIONS

WE VIBE MATCH COUPLES VIBRATOR

The We-Vibe Match couples vibrator targets your clitoris and your G-spot while stimulating your partner with it’s deep, rumbly vibrations.  It’s made from body safe silicone and features 10 vibration modes and intensity modes that invite you to play at your own pace.

LELO TOR 2 BLACK

Worn by a man when making love, the smooth silicone design comfortably fits all sizes, bringing a long-lasting presence to him and amazing sensations for her. The Tor II has 100% more powerful vibrations than any product of its kind.

3. Open Lines of Communication

When a couple decides to experiment with new things this naturally involves some form of communication about this new adventure. It’s well known that communication is an important foundation to a successful relationship. The simple act of choosing a new sex toy together opens new lines of communication. Playing with the toy allows each partner to give and receive direction, as well as feedback which is very healthy when it comes to intimacy.

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RHYTHM – NATYA COUPLE TOY – PURPLE

10 Benefits of Couples Using Sex Toys

Our remote controlled couples’ massager intensifies sexual sensations for you and your partner. This soft, bendable and body shape-adapting toy is internally worn during lovemaking to create and enjoy more intense climaxes. 

FIFTY SHADES OF GREY VIBRATING BULLET

Sleek and slender with an elegant reflective silver finish. ‘We Aim to Please’ is a clitoral vibrator that intensifies solo pleasure and enhances foreplay. Slip the petite bullet vibe between you and your lover to escalate shared pleasure during lovemaking.

4. Increase Trust and Comfort Levels

Trying new things allows couples to learn about each others preferences, which increases trust and comfort levels. Learning about what makes the other tick strengthens intimacy. This opens up the doors for enjoying new sexual encounters together and makes the sexual bond even stronger.

SUGGESTIONS

PICOBONG TRANSFORMER CERISE

The revolutionary PicoBong Transformer is a rabbit vibe, a clitoral massager, a cock-ring, a G-spot stimulator, a prostate massager, a double-ended vibrator and a vibrating double-ended dildo. It’s perfect for every couple combination possible.

WE-VIBE VERGE VIBRATING RING

Penis rings are designed for fuller longer-lasting erections and more powerful orgasms. Verge has the added benefit of stimulating the perineum. The rumbly vibrations stimulate the perineum and your partner can enjoy the vibrations too.

5. Variety in Bed

Sex toys are a great way to add a little excitement to your sex life. They encourage you to explore and interact with each other in new ways. They can take you out of your comfort zone and break routines. Having a variety of toys allows couples to have as many different sexual experiences as they desire. As the old saying goes, “variety is the spice of life.”

SUGGESTIONS

LELO TIANI 3 BLACK

An award-winning couples’ massager, worn by women when making love. Powerful vibrations provide targeted sensations to the clitoris. The smooth silicone design gives ultimate pleasure and comfort for simultaneous orgasms with your partner.

WE-VIBE JIVE BLUE VIBRATING EGG

Jive by We-Vibe is a bluetooth controlled vibrating egg. It is comfortable to wear while lying, sitting, standing or walking, and the rumbly vibrations can be controlled by you or your partner regardless of distance with the free We-Connect app.

6. They Take The Pressure Off

There can be a lot of pressure put on both partners to perform well and reach orgasm. Many women struggle to orgasm during penetration with a partner. It’s often easier for men to reach orgasm. Sometimes women need something a little extra, like clitoral stimulation. There are great sex toys out there that can help a woman have a better orgasm by stimulating the clitoris. It’s not all about the woman though. These toys also have benefits for men, like enhancing erections and intensifying orgasms. This can help alleviate any pressure either partner is feeling, leaving you both to enjoy the experience more.

SUGGESTIONS

DORCEL MAGIC FINGER RECHARGEABLE

10 Benefits of Couples Using Sex Toys

Turn your finger or your partner’s finger into an extraordinary pleasure tool with the Magic Finger vibrator. It’s great for foreplay to help arousal. Made of soft silicone, it has 13 stimulation points and 3 motors for endless amounts of pleasure.

WE VIBE SYNC AQUA

We-Vibe Sync is designed to be enjoyed with a partner. Its compact, body-hugging form is designed to deliver simultaneous pleasure to the G-spot and the clitoris. It’s made from body-safe silicone — free from phthalates and BPA, and made without latex.

7. Experience More Intense Orgasms

With exploration comes discovery! Having a sex toy or toys that you both enjoy and benefit from often means reaching orgasms with more ease, having more intense orgasms, and even enjoying multiple orgasms…

SUGGESTIONS

DELUXE VIBRATING PENIS ENHANCER

10 Benefits of Couples Using Sex Toys

This thick enhancer features an open-ended head so you can feel every sensation and still enjoy the natural touch of your lover. It instantly adds girth, is ribbed for her extra pleasure and has a vibrating clitoral stimulator. The ball strap prolongs ejaculation.

HAYDEN VIBRATOR WITH CLIT STIMULATOR PINK

Hayden is perfect for partner play and you will love this unique experience. It’s made from medical grade silicone, so it’s soft and flexible. The two super quiet, yet very powerful 10-speed motors provide satisfying vaginal and clitoral stimulation

8. Self-Pleasure

Using sex toys alone can help you get to know your own body, understand what stimulation you enjoy and how you reach orgasm. This kind of self-exploration and discovery enables you to guide your partner during your sexual experiences together.

SUGGESTIONS

LELO INA WAVE VIBRATOR PLUM

INA Wave is inspired by the caress of a lover’s fingers, as it surges with a natural ‘come-hither’ motion to massage your G-Spot. While its generous body rises and falls, the powerful clitoral stimulator creates a blended climax that crashes over you.

LELO LOKI WAVE PROSTATE MASSAGER

The ultimate new pleasure product for men. Combined with the 10 satisfying vibrating settings from two perfectly placed motors for simultaneous prostate and perineum massage, it’s a combination that guarantees a life-changing orgasmic experience. 

9. Additional Stimulation

Sex toys can definitely add extra stimulation in a variety of ways during both foreplay and sex. Toys with motors can intensify orgasms for both partners. They can be used for arousal before penetration. Cock rings and couples’ vibrators can be worn during penetration. Dildos and vibrators can offer exciting new possibilities for double penetration. Erotic pleasure toys like spanking paddles, floggers, feather ticklers can be enjoyed as part of bedroom bondage or to simply excite your lover before having sex.

SUGGESTIONS

LELO IDA BLACK VIBRATOR

Worn by women when making love, Ida is the worlds first ever couples’ massager to combine powerful vibrations and thrilling rotations within, guaranteeing a mind-blowing array of pleasures for both partners. Your love-life will never be the same again!

FIFTY SHADES FREED FEATHER TICKLER

10 Benefits of Couples Using Sex Toys

A Soft feather tickler for titillating sensory play. Beautifully designed with soft purple feathers and a handle finished in rose-gold. It has an embossed leather collection tag and is supplied in a luxurious envelope-style satin bag.

10. They Can Help Bring Fantasies to Life

Lots of people have fantasies, yet they are often not the easiest thing to talk about. Experimenting with sex toys can open lines of communication for discussing your fantasies. Fifty Shades of Grey brought bondage in to the mainstream and definitely aroused a lot of curiosity. Using toys as your props is the best way to take the fantasies out of your head and into the real world. Role playing can be fun and very exciting. Handcuffs, blindfolds, whips, swings… The possibilities are endless. These kinds of toys aren’t just for hardcore BDSM play. There are lots of toys out there for light bondage and restraint play, which is enough to add a little extra excitement to your lovemaking sessions.

SUGGESTIONS

FIFTY SHADES OF GREY BED RESTRAINTS KIT

Transform your bed into a bondage playground and enjoy the fettered throes of lust in soft satin. Ideal for beginners, this bedroom bondage set can be used to create a full body restraint that’s quick and easy to secure. 

FIFTY SHADES OF GREY SATIN SPANKING PADDLE

10 Benefits of Couples Using Sex Toys

Part of the Fifty Shades of Grey The Official Pleasure Collection approved by author E L James, this spanking paddle is the ideal erotic gift for fans of the trilogy. Ergonomically shaped to behave as a natural extension to your own twitchy palm.

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